Thursday, 16 April 2009

That's none of your business!!

I really hate it when my family members go blabbing behind my back that I lost my job by myself and that I might not get a job due to the financial crisis we live in !!
They all know that I am crazy about work. I even started working before I graduated from college! I have always volunteered to work for unpaid extra hours and weekends just because I am a hard working girl!
Am I supposed to gather them up and tell them that I left because I was living under the leadership of a manager who thinks with his penis!! How can a girl say that to her family!?
And my sister, if you know that I get upset when you tell me about all these stuff happening behind my back, PLEASE stop!! I can't tell you when you're 8 years older than me and is the most sensitive girl on earth to stop telling me about all the she said and he said stuff! It's my life and my career.
Please understand that I have my own reasons for quitting! I didn't ask for anybody's opinion when I decided to quit so please understand that such things don't matter to me!! I lead my life by myelf! Just leave me a lone please!


Flifla said...

if u have inner peace with this decision then sister go ahead and u will find a better and well paid job no matter crisis it is Allah who decides so do not fear crisis or people or ur family
i like when woman are strong enought to make a decision which preserve their honor and their dignity cause no matter crisis or not dignity, strenght and honor have no prices
u can find back a job whenever u want insha Allah but we have just one life and one dignity
so be brave cause when i read u it sounds just like a warrior

Bliss said...

enshallah you'll find a better job than the previous one! where you'll feel completely comfortable with! allah ysahil 3aleky :)

Maqsood Qureshi said...

You mean sexual harassment? And, be assertive. Try and read this book: Pulling Your Own Strings by Dr. Wayne W. Dyer

Fadiosis said...

tell me about it dear... i posted almost the same thing :P..
i hate ppl when they tell u what to do WHEN U DIDN"T ASK FOR THEIR STUPID OPINIONS !!!!!
Allah ye3eenik ya 3sal :D

His Sweetheart said...

Thank you, thank you, thank you :)

Ameen ya rab

No, but the guy has a drty mind trying to decive every girl! He didn't do that to me, if he did, he would have been rotting in his grave!

Thanks 7beebti :)

Stand-Alone~ said...

Your hardwork and talent wont go un-noticed.. inshallah you will get a better job and will succed and that will give your family memeber somehting positive to talk about..

Maqsood Qureshi said...

Wish I were your boss! ;-)

Alive enough to be here said...

Do we still talking about what people think about us?
I really hate this and I start to put this behind my back .I believe if I care much for others , I think I'll end up in psychiatric hospital. I hope you can tell your family the real reason about quitting your job , and they all will shut their mouth up, and they will respect you more than ever. I do believe in Godly compensation, and all I can tell you is to wait , and you will get it. Life's fair enough , and who knows, you might be thankful for this boss for giving you a chance to have a work in a better place.
I wish you a good luck

just a bunch of thoughts said...

oh, dont think too much about what others think, as long as u knew what u did was right.
its so annoying, when they do that, but when i get agitated, & i dont want headaches, i remind myself that they only did that because they love me & want the best for me.
only i wish they could really see that what i choose is what it s best for me. but why care to have headaches?


i just read some of ur older posts, & ur blog is really nice :)

His Sweetheart said...

Thank you babes


Alive enough to be here
The jerk will be always a jerk even if he led me into better chances lol

just a bunch of thoughts
awww, so sweet of you! Thanks a bunch :)

MubMaj said...

I have tried to live by this rule, that i came across in a mag, and which has stayed in my mind ever since "If you care too much about what other people think about you, then you have let others control your life"...i think this is true...